Sunday, October 20, 2013

Round 2, Thursday and Friday

Thursday morning we went to clinic to get Shad's counts checked and make sure that he was all clear to start chemotherapy the next day.  We got the ok, and directions to be back to the hospital by 7:00 that evening.  The oncologist didn't want the nurses to have any excuse not to give Shad the steroid shot right at 9:00.  We went to pick up Trevor's suit for the wedding from Jos A. Bank, and then the three of us got some lunch at Panera.  We headed home where mom and dad packed, and Shad played with grandma, grandpa and Jayce.  Grandma, Shad and I went for a walk to mail my dress back at the UPS store, while Trevor stayed home to finish up his homework.
Darth Vader Yoda Mickey Mouse got to come with us
That evening we checked into the hospital at 7:00.  Unfortunately they were pretty busy, so we were put into one of the smaller rooms.  There is only one bed in those rooms with only enough room for one pull out chair/bed.  There are also two doors, less lights, and a smaller main area window.  Shad was already accessed from that morning so it was pretty painless to get him hooked up to the fluids.  We played pool ball, and other toys for a bit, and then got him ready for bed.  It was decided since Trevor was going to be out of town the next two nights I would go home to sleep that night, so once Shad was in bed I left.  

The next morning my mom and went to the hospital with my dad and Jayce close behind.  By the time we got there Trevor and Shad had already gotten the birthday legos out to put together.  They were about halfway done with the rancor pit.  One of the nurses had brought a cake in for Shad's birthday which was pretty sweet.  Once Trevor and Shad finished the lego, Trevor and Jayce got ready and left.  About 10:30 the nurse came in to get Shad all hooked up to monitors and prepped for chemo.  Unfortunately the monitor wasn't working so she had to go in search of another one.  She was able to find one, and they got him all hooked up.  Chemo started about 11:00.  The first day he gets his Taxol which is run over 24 hours.  This is probably the hardest day for him, because he is not allowed to get up at all.  He and I (mostly I) started in on his other birthday lego, Jabba's Palace.  About 3 hours later that was finished.  We played cars memory, and disney headbandz for awhile, and then my mom and I left and went to Joann for a bit.  She wanted to look for some fabric for a baby blanket she was going to make.  I bought some yarn for a project I have been working on, and that was about it.  We picked up some dinner and then headed back to the hospital.  When we got there grandpa let us know that Shad's resting heart rate was kind of low(normal for his age is between 80 and 120, at the time his was between 60 and 80), so they doctors wanted to do an EKG.  The nurse had come in to do it, but the machine wouldn't work.  She let them know that she needed another one, and they said that they would get on that.  They weren't too worried because he was still perfusing well, and his pulse ox was still good.  His blood pressure was good as well.  








My parents left around 8:30, and they still hadn't come to do the EKG yet.  Shad was asleep, and I surfed the web and watched some shows for a bit.  About 9:30 the nurse came in with the EKG machine.  She got Shad all hooked up, at some point during the process he woke up.  He thought all the wires were awesome, and when she was finished the nurse even let him help with pulling the wires off.  They told us they would show it to the doctors, and then they would come in at some point and let us know what they thought.  By this point his heart rate was even lower, fluctuating between 50 and 70. The nurse came in a bit later and let me know that the EKG had looked fine.  They still weren't too concerned.  He isn't hooked up to monitors all the time, so they thought that possibly his resting heart rate was normally low and we just didn't know.  About 11 I got in bed, but was having trouble falling asleep.  Every time the heart rate went below 60 the machine would beep and flash an orange light.  Eventually I dozed off, and was awoken after only a few minutes by a doctor who was examining Shad.  She let me know that they were a little concerned because his heart rate was staying lower and lower, his blood pressure was beginning to lower, and his respirations were low.  At that point she said that they thought he was ok, because his pulse ox was still good, he still seemed to be perfusing well, etc.  Of course being the mom, there was no hope of sleeping after that.  I laid on the bed and watched that monitor for the next several hours.  Luckily, the nurse had talked to me, and I knew that she was out at the nursing station watching the monitors as well.  She told me that she was going to bother the doctors as much as she had to to make sure he was taken care of and safe.  That was very reassuring for me.  They called the oncologist to see if they should take him off the chemo, but the oncologist thought he was ok at that point.  A little while later after a lower blood pressure, and lower heart rate the nurse and a doctor came in to let me know that they were going to stop the chemo.  He had already had more than 2/3 of the drug, and the doctor thought that would be an adequate dose.  Once they got it turned off, and the regular fluids going I watched the monitor awhile longer.  He seemed to be doing a little bit better, so I was finally able to calm down enough to fall asleep.  That was about 5:30.  Shad decided that he wanted to be awake and ready for the day about 6:30, but I gave him his ipad and he was content to watch a movie in bed while I dozed a while longer.  




More to come...

Saturday, October 5, 2013

Star Wars Party

Shad woke up bright and early yesterday morning, rolled over to face me (daddy was on the ship, Shad was in my bed), and said, "I am so excited because today is my party!"  Unfortunately I had to tell him his party was not for one more day.

This morning he woke up bright and early, came in and said the same thing.  Lucky for him today really was the day.

I had scoured the internet (pinterest) for some fun ideas, and luckily there were a lot out there.  I began preparations Friday night by making a banner, and a Darth Vader for a game.  
Idea from Lemon Squeezy here
Idea from Lemon Squeezy here
Friday Shad and I filled the pinata, painted the lightsaber pinata hitting stick, finished the pool noodle light sabers, and cleaned up his toys downstairs.  Trevor and I blew up balloons last night, did the last bit of grocery shopping, and went to bed.

This morning we went to pick up the cake.  I found this group, cakes against cancer, and signed up to get a cake for Shad.  The volunteer, Melissa,  who made his cake did an amazing job, and he loved it!

We got home, finalized some things, and it was time for his party to start.  As kids got here, we played outside, then came in and played with balloons, and then played with some star wars masks I had printed out from star wars.com.

Then we played the shoot Darth Vader with silly string game in the backyard.  The dollar store silly string went quickly, but the kids seemed to love the idea anyway.




Next we pulled out the pool noodle lightsabers and went to town.  We hit balloons with them.  We hit Darth Vader with them.  We even hit each other with them (luckily there were no tears).


After the games we ate lunch, hotdogs, chips and pink jello salad.  After lunch we went out front to hit the pinata.  Shad was super excited for this part.  I made the stick with a wooden dowel and blue glitter paint.  It took two small containers of the paint to fully cover the stick, but Shad thought it was super cool, so I guess that made it worth it.






Then it was back inside for presents and cake and ice cream.  Shad got some fun dinosaur transformer type toys, Jake and the Neverland Pirate duplos, and a talking Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle.









Finally, before everyone left we went back into the backyard to take a group picture in front of the banner.  Unfortunately, the wind took a toll on the banner, it fell down multiple times, the stars and letters kept falling off, and as you can see we lost an E somewhere.  Oh well, I tried.



Happy birthday sweet boy, we sure love you!


Friday, October 4, 2013

So long

So this happened Tuesday...

That is Shad's hair in case you were unsure why I was holding a huge hairball in my hand.  I may have shed a tear or two, but Shad thought it was hilarious.  He would rub his hand over his head, pull it down covered in hair, and just laugh and laugh.  We were nervous how he would react, so I was glad it didn't seem to phase him.

When daddy got home that was followed by this...


We broke the rules a bit and went to Costco for some dinner, and then to Sonic for a treat.  

This is how it looked tonight...



Daddy says he is going to shave the rest really short in the morning so it won't look quite so silly.